Thursday, July 31, 2014

WhimsiColeArt.com -- I'm Selling My Art Online Now!

After selling my first piece of art, by simply having it in the right place at the right time, I decided to do as many people have told me to do recently.  I've put my art online for sale.  I got me a main domain website, and I'm slowly learning how to have a real business, selling my art.  

Here's a link to my online store:  WhimsiColeArt.com,  I came up with the name for my store/website, because I love bright colors of pretty things that make me smile.  Get it? Whimsical? And of course, I want you to remember my name.  I will always keep the Cole name.  My husband may be gone, but he gave me that name, and I'm keeping it.

I'm a firm believer of doing what you love.  Not that I don't love working 40-hours a week. . . but I spend all my free time painting, so I decided I should at least try to make my art pay for itself.  Quality artist paints and canvases are not cheap.

I need the help of my friends to get people to check out my website.  So please share this post with as many people as you can.  I'll be adding pieces each week.  Let me know what you think.

--Phyllis




Another "Second First:" My High School Reunion

This post builds on the many "second firsts" I've been talking about in my blog. . . things I'm doing again, but for the first time as a widow.  Everything is different, once you become a widow.  Here's another second first: my high school reunion.

Me (far left, with wine glass in hand) and my GPHS 40th Reunion Planning Teammates
For the last 6 months, I’ve been meeting with a small group of my old high school friends to plan our 40th high school reunion.  I had reconnected with Jackie while Scott was sick.  Jackie was a classmate who I didn’t really know that well in high school, but knew well enough to say, “Hey, remember me?”  And she did.  About 25 years ago her name came up when my mother-in-law said a nurse in her dialysis clinic had known me in high school.  Jackie was that nurse.  My mother-in-law has since long passed away, and now my husband was dying.  Jackie is a great friend to have under such sad situations, as she deals with serious health issues daily, and she’s such a reassuring presence.  Anyway, Jackie and I got to talking about wanting to reconnect with long-lost classmates.  One thing lead to another, and pretty soon we had a small band of classmates together at a pub in Springfield, Oregon, planning for a reunion . . . our 40th . . .  to occur in less than 6 months.  Could we pull it off?  We wanted to keep it simple (where people could just mingle and get to know each other again) and cheap (so more people could afford to attend).  We thought we’d be extremely lucky to get 40-50 people.  With a graduating class of somewhere close to 700 people, we figured there might be that many classmates still in town or close by.  We never anticipated so many people would travel to make it for the reunion.  We set up a website on Classmates.com and a page on Facebook, and we did lots of promotion via various social media.  The turnout simply amazed me.  We had over 150 people at each of the three events planned.

We graduated from a town with only ONE high school at the time, so I thought I knew everyone in town.  NOT true!  And I had forgotten many of the people I knew back then. What a trip.  It was like meeting a hundred strangers that I had an amazing familiarity with.  We all have led interesting lives in the 40 years since we crossed under those rose-covered arches to graduate, but we all share a common background and experience that ties us together.  It was hands down, the best reunion experience I have been a part of.  One of the best parts was the side-bar small gatherings we managed to squeeze into the weekend.  A group of 9 of us took a jet boat trip down the Rogue River.  That was a hoot!  My brother-in-law was our pilot, so he made sure we got a few extra spins in and made the trip extra fun.  A group of us went to the “Back to the 50’s Cruise,” a parade of classic cars.  I enjoyed the company of good friends over three meals a day.  And the wine, oh my, oh my.  The wine flowed continuously.

My classmates are very generous.  We raffled off gifts donated by various classmates, and we ended up raising close to $500 for the GPHS Scholarship Foundation.
Only a PORTION of the classmates attending our 40th reunion.  Go Cavemen!
Over the years I have kept in touch with only a few classmates, and only a couple of them live in our old hometown still.  I go back there often, since my dad, my sister, and my sister’s daughter all live there.  But it is rare that I really get time to hang out with old friends.  And that’s all I did this last weekend.  I had the time of my life.  It was great meeting (re-meeting) old friends.  !   I’ve been telling people it was like meeting strangers I’ve known my whole life.   It was fun to see how my 18-year old friends had matured into amazing adults.  Of course, we’ve all had a lot of “life” happen in between high school and now.  The weekend  just wasn’t long enough.  Actually the whole week I was in town was not long enough. . . .on the one hand . . . but on the other hand . . . I was exhausted and needing to go back to work, just to rest. 

I am learning how valuable my friends are.  Especially now that I am a widow. . . .but even before.  The biggest difference now is this:  I do not have to worry about my husband being bored while I enjoy the company of my old friends.  I remember earlier reunions, where that was the case.  But no more.  I continue to look for the positive side of widow-hood, and this is something positive.  I have time to reconnect with long lost old friends.  I simply LOVE spending time catching up, and reflecting on our lives together.  So if you’re an old friend of mine, reading this, and we haven’t had a chance to sit down and chat over a glass or wine, or over the Internet . . . please contact me.  I’d love to get caught up.  Really!   In fact, I’m working on planning a “Girls Weekend” for somewhere on the Oregon coast or maybe on a river.  Just need to slow down long enough to make plans.  If you have ideas, or just want to go, let me know.

Another "Second First" -- my 40th high school reunion

For the last 6 months, I’ve been meeting with a small group of my old high school friends to plan our 40th high school reunion.  We graduated from Grants Pass High School in 1974.  I had reconnected with Jackie while Scott was sick.  Jackie was a classmate who I didn’t really know that well in high school, but knew well enough to say, “Hey, remember me?”  And she did.  About 25 years ago her name came up when my mother-in-law said a nurse in her dialysis clinic had known me in high school.  Jackie was that nurse.  My mother-in-law has since long passed away, and now my husband was dying.  Jackie is a great friend to have under such dire situations, as she deals with serious health issues daily, and she’s such a reassuring presence.  Anyway, Jackie and I got to talking about wanting to reconnect with long-lost classmates.  One thing lead to another, and pretty soon we had a small band of classmates together at a pub in Springfield, Oregon, planning for a reunion . . . our 40th . . .  to occur in less than 6 months.  Could we pull it off?  We wanted to keep it simple (where people could just mingle and get to know each other again) and cheap (so more people could afford to attend).  We thought we’d be extremely lucky to get 40-50 people.  With a graduating class of somewhere close to 700 people, we figured there might be that 40 classmates still in town or close by.  We never anticipated so many people would travel to make it for the reunion.  We set up a website on Classmates.com and a page on Facebook, and we did lots of promotion via various social media, and some follow up calls too.  The turnout simply amazed me.  We had over 150 people at each of the three events planned.
Our Reunion Planning Team.  I'm sitting down on the right, holding the glass of wine, of course.

This is just the group that hung around after lunch at Fiasco Winery.  We served 130 meals.
We graduated from a town with only ONE high school at the time, so I thought I knew everyone in town.  NOT true!  And I had forgotten many of the people I knew back then. What a trip.  It was like meeting a hundred strangers that I had an amazing familiarity with.  We all have led interesting lives in the 40 years since we crossed under those rose-covered arches to graduate, but we all share a common background and experience that ties us together.  It was hands down, the best reunion experience I have been a part of.  One of the best parts was the side-bar small gatherings we managed to squeeze into the weekend.  A group of 9 of us took a jet boat trip down the Rogue River.  That was a hoot!  My brother-in-law was our pilot, so he made sure we got a few extra spins in and made the trip extra fun.  A group of us went to the “Back to the 50’s Cruise,” a parade of classic cars.  I enjoyed the company of good friends over three meals a day.  And the wine, oh my, oh my.  The wine flowed continuously.

Over the years I have kept in touch with only a few classmates, and only a couple of them still live in Grants Pass.  I go back there often, since my dad, my sister, and my sister’s daughter all live there.  But it is rare that I really get time to hang out with old friends.  And that’s all I did this last weekend.  I had the time of my life!  It was great meeting (re-meeting) old friends.  !  It was fun to see how my 18-year old friends had matured into amazing adults.  The weekend  just wasn’t long enough.  Actually the whole week I was in town was not long enough. . . .on the one hand . . . but on the other hand . . . I was exhausted and needing to go back to work, just to rest. 

My classmates are very generous.  Several donated nice gifts that we raffled off.  We raised over $500 for the high school scholarship foundation.


I am very much aware of how valuable my friends are to me. . . specially now that I am a widow. . . .but even before too.  The biggest difference now is this:  I do not have to worry about my husband being bored while I enjoy the company of my old friends.  I remember earlier reunions, where that was the case.  But no more.  I continue to look for the positive side of widow-hood, and this is something positive.  I have time to reconnect with long lost old friends.  I simply LOVE spending time catching up, and reflecting on our lives together.  So if you’re an old friend of mine, reading this, and we haven’t had a chance to sit down and chat over a glass or wine, or over the Internet . . . please contact me.  I’d love to get caught up.  Really!   In fact, I’m working on planning a “Girls Weekend” for somewhere on the Oregon coast or maybe on a river.  Just need to slow down long enough to make plans.  If you have ideas, or just want to go, let me know.

Tuesday, July 1, 2014

Painting Like an Artist


On Sunday I came back home from a long weekend in North Carolina. I participated in the “Paint Like An Artist” workshop at Donna Downey’s Studio in Huntersville, NC. www.donnadowney.com. I discovered Donna online about a year ago, when I was looking for inspiration for designing and decorating my new art studio.  Donna had just redone her art studio in her new home, and it was exactly like what I was looking for.  Then I started to notice her art.  She posted videos of herself making things to inspire others.  Her background is in teaching, and her passion is ART!  So I took a couple of her online classes, and I fell in love with her style . . . How she painted; the colors, the texture, the mixed-media materials, and the layering and then more layering.  I even learned to paint faces through her studio’s educational videos.  So I decided to fly out there for her 4-day workshop.  I wanted to learn how to blend colors the way she did, and I wanted to be comfortable painting on really BIG canvases.  Like everything else in my life, I like my art BIG.  Once I painted a huge canvas for my office.  I think it was 48” x 60”.  But I only managed it by dividing it up into 12 squares and painting a patchwork of 12 smaller paintings.  I wanted to fill up an entire big canvas with color and texture, just like my new idol, Donna Downey.  And I wanted to meet others with my same interests.  There were 10 of us in the class, and we all had different skill sets when it came to art.  Ladies came from all across the US.  I was surprised to find another West Coast lady, especially when I learned she was from McMinnville, Oregon, which is only about 2 hours from where I live in Olympia, Washington.

The weekend was great.  They had the studio all set up for us.  We each had a place with gifts like personalized embroidered painters’ berets and aprons, and all the paint supplies we would ever need.  You can tell Donna, and her husband Bill, had done this before.  They had thought of everything.  Together they have created a studio that is the most positive, happy, and comfortable space!  It sets the theme of creativity and fun.  Lovely teal walls with lots of sunlight shining in, and the artwork . . . ohhhh the artwork. Even the bathroom walls were covered with students’ art.  I often would just wonder the halls looking at the art.  And whenever I needed nourishment, there was always yummy snacks and drinks at hand.   There was a whole corner area with shelves full of yummy candy and treats, available 24/7.  Sometimes candy is the best source of inspiration! And all the meals were provided.  I totally blew my diet.  The food was lovingly made by Donna’s Italian mother from the Bronx, Grandma Cookie. She is amazing! She slips in while everyone’s busy painting, and before you know it, the most delicious, well-planned meals are before you, ready for you to enjoy. You can eat while you paint, or you can take a break and sit down and have a full course meal.  And she prepared it in such a way as to meet all the unique dietary requirements among us.  You basically built your meal, choosing the sauces, meats, and vegies to your own liking.

Saturday night they took us by limos to a lovely little restaurant in an old southern farm house called FORK.  It was lovely.  They served food family style, with course after course of yummy fresh foods, from side dishes to fish, steak, chicken, and various desserts. I’ve never heard salmon called sheep’s head, but that’s what it was.  And it was delicious.

So, “what about the painting?” you say.  We arrived on Thursday afternoon, and we started right in!  That big intimidating blank canvas didn’t stay blank very long.  Donna had us experiment with all the paints laid out before us, seeing what colors looked good next to others, and which ones looked horrible.   She called it “creating chaos,” but there was a definite method to the madness!   The goal was to experiment with all types of textures, mediums and colors, while building up an interesting background where things would peek out here and there and hint of lots of goodness underneath.  Donna kept reminding people not to worry about loving what was on the canvas that first day, as it would all be covered up tomorrow.  It was amazing to see the evolution behind each painting.

Our first assignment was to divide the canvas in two parts (any way we wanted of course), painting one half in cool colors (blues, greens) and the other half in warm colors (reds, oranges).  We focused on the color wheel and how these tones made us feel.  I have always preferred cool colors.  So I made it my personal challenge to do the warm colors in a way that would make me love them.  And it worked.  I loved the red/pink/purple parts best.

 
 
As I had hoped, I learned a lot about mediums I don’t usually use. I learned that retarder and high flow are my friends!  I wrote text with India inks.  I was reunited with my old friends, heavy molding paste and gesso.  The process of painting is so cathartic.  Our second day’s assignment was especially so.  Donna told us to divide our blank canvases into three sections, labeling one “past,” one “present” and one “future.”  And then fill in each section with whatever we wanted, as we thought about these words.    Again, it didn’t matter what we put on the canvas, because it was just background.  In the next couple of steps we would cover it all up, and there was something really rewarding about painting over the black text that said “Cancer Sucks” with some happy pinks and purple colors.  Then Donna told us to draw random shapes or strokes in black India ink on the canvas.  I had big swirly strokes, or course.  Then Donna had the whole class look at each canvas and tell us what they saw.  There were lots of elephants, flowers, and ladies heads to be seen.  On my canvas, people saw things I didn’t see, but when someone said “peacock,” I saw it . . . and I LOVE the colors in a peacock.  So I instantly knew that what was hiding on my canvas. 
 

 
 
 

I never expected to leave with a peacock and a bouquet of flowers.  But that’s what others saw emerging from my canvases, so that’s what I took home.  Some of the people there produced work I would be happy to purchase and display in my home.  My work was not in that category.  But I understood throughout the weekend that it was all about the PROCESS of learning, and building my skills, in order to put it together later to produce the kind of art I would want to buy myself.  These were just practice pieces.


I came home on Sunday, and Monday evening I was already working on a new big canvas in my own art studio.  I’m so inspired, and I have a new confidence that made the whole weekend trip worth the effort.

If you want to know more about Donna Downey Studios, go to her website:  www.donnadowney.com.